VJ was being deputed to Germany and we were busy applying for a dependent German Visa for myself and little Jyo. There were lotza forms and formalities to be done and Jyo enjoyed imprinting her thumb on the application forms. We had sent our applications with the supporting documents to the German Consulate in Chennai and were waiting to hear from them, having carefully read the important note on the form saying ‘Enquiries not entertained before the stipulated time period’. 

We were hoping to travel together foreseeing the nightmare of me travelling alone with Jyo and dragging all the luggage. As this would be my first trip abroad and Jyo still an infant, none of us wanted to risk; especially my dad was very keen I travel with his son-in-law; but on the contrary VJ had to travel on emergency. I presume myself to be a confident person, convinced VJ not to worry and travelling alone will not be a problem with no clue of what’s ahead for me.

I became more than busy after his travel, managing all those additional responsibilities which he was handling and getting ready for our’s. Stipulated time was growing closer and thought of making a formal enquiry on the status of our dependent visa. Did try quite a lot of times to get the line but as usual was engaged most of the time. I ran out of time since visa questions will be answered from Monday – Thursday between 12.30 p.m. – 2.30 p.m. only. The next day, I did get the line after a long attempt and gave my reference number to the rigid toned enquiry section lady. Curiously waiting for the result – ‘yes approved and dispatched’ said the firm voice, that’s it; I shouted umpteen thanks with all excitement and could hear the rigid tone smile . 

“Unshared joy is an unlighted candle.” — Spanish proverb